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Experiences That Stay With You 

We set sail in life in search of experiences that will stay with us forever: We try to find them in ways we live, work, and travel. But as well as making memories of our own, we have responsibility to preserve, to improve the world around us so that the next generations can do the same. You could call this making a contribution or leaving a legacy. We see it more as a way of life and seeking to make it the best it can be in real time.

A Journey to Peace with the 7 Spiritual Truths

I realized on my own journey I am always one thought away from a thinking thought that could strengthen my positive habits and attract me to what I desire most. Sadly, I also recognize I am always only one thought away from thinking negative thoughts that can trigger my brain to play the blame, shame, victim game. Over time, I have learned to guard my thoughts in the way a farmer guards his chickens from predators. Unfortunately, every once in a while I lose a chick or two.


Happily even in the midst of dire situations if we create a habit of thought it can change the outcomes. I've been told we can form a new habit in only 21 days. If it is your intention to create…financial abundance, a trimmer, healthier body, improve your relationships or to create a career where you can make a good living doing the work you love to do, it will take a commitment to form new habits of thoughts, feelings and actions to dis-create your negative thoughts, feelings and actions. Ultimately, it takes re-purposing thoughts to meet the commitment to form new habits. 


Your concentrated effort and self-discipline for 21 days will take less effort and less concentration to perform because it has become a habit. It all comes down to a choice. If you choose to change, you will either make lemonade out of your lemons, so you can land in a better place or you will fall prey to the blame, shame, victim game and your life will remain conflicted or ultimately get progressively worse.


We are creatures of habit in both mind and body so be aware that often when going through change it will often feel as if things are going wrong. Two things will happen through change: You will either create the new reality that you want, or you will design what you need to heal, fix, dis-create, own, forgive, and release the pain that is holding you back from the success of  creating the reality you want.


I believe we were created as unique perfect beings in God 's image,  but by choices we make we create one habitual belief system at a time that defines who we become. However, intentional lifestyle change allows us to be reborn with new habits. Thought by thought we become the architect and builder of the reality that we are experiencing. New habits will give us the ability to control what we are thinking, so we can build a life filled with love, health, spiritual abundance, and joy.


BE-DO-HAVE by identifying yourself as a unique spiritual being unlike any other. BE what you want to experience, DO the work that is required to form the new habits you need so you can HAVE the life you want. Be inspired and embrace all your possibilities!! There are no limits but the ones YOU create.


All God's Blessings on your journey, Tina.

More than 30 years ago, I made a conscious decision to change my life. I made a commitment to change my habit of thought. In what seemed like a second in time I watched myself slide from a mentality that was dark and fear-based, to an enlightened, spiritually directed mentality.


The first 21 days were the hardest. Little by little, from that day forward, I formed a new habit of thought. I have used the seven spiritual truths like a compass to guide me back to my inner self anytime I feel lost or disconnected on my journey home to me and a purpose filled life. With the help of God, I am able to create a life worth living and be reborn by one intentional thought and act on it.


Our inner self is where change begins and where we can embrace happiness within ourselves and live a purposeful life filled with hope. It wasn't to achieve perfection.--it was about knowing and accepting who I am. I intentionally chose to think thoughts about what I wanted to create and avoided thoughts about what my brain feared might go wrong.


Slowly, but surely, I grew more confident on how to consciously dis-create and eliminate old negative-based habits of thinking thoughts of doom and gloom and replaced them with positive thoughts of hope, faith and acceptance and love.


The lessons I have learned in life were through the experiences I allowed myself to feel and release. The experiences I created were not to punish me but to teach me the truth in the Laws of Life. That is “recognizing we are all spiritual beings having a human experience". Unfortunately, we live in the world where uniqueness and diversity is not always embraced and where love and respect is  a "transactional" event that is unsustainable. Sometimes leaving us hurt and broken in spirit.


The truth we avoid through negative thoughts and beliefs will eventually line up like dominoes and when emotionally triggered will activate the domino effect and create a chain reaction based on past experiences and negatively conditioned responses making us feel sad, angry, and depressed.


We have all heard people called egocentric or ego-centered. Our ego is extremely subtle and deceptive at stopping us from doing what we need to do to transcend our pain and fears. Our ego wants to label people and experiences as right or wrong, good or bad.


The ego gives you a false sense of security because its job is to "block" your pain with mental amnesia. Like aspirin the ego minimizes and blocks your pain, but in reality the real cause behind why you have the pain in the first place is not addressed or healed.

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